"To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven" ~ Karen Sunde
Love is probably the most amazing feeling to have existed. You cannot feel it, you have to experience it. It bonds two individuals in a phenomenal bond of intimacy and trust. There comes a time in every persons life when they experience this feeling. It can sweep you off your feet, give you butterflies in the stomach, make your life beautiful, truly give you a glimpse of heaven. But there is another side to it also. The part where love hurts you. More so often we see relationships which end badly, leaves one shattered, literally destroyed. They say love is as painful as it is beautiful, it destroys as much as it creates, it shatters as much as it uplifts. Falling in love is blissful, falling out of it is painful. And once you fall out of it, you feel that you can never love again.
But life and love are never that cruel. There always comes a time in every persons life when love gives them a second chance, a chance to love again, to feel again, to be happy again. Whether we take that chance or not is completely up to us and sadly most of us are so preoccupied crying over the one that ended to see the one that could begin. We are so sad and heart broken that we do not take notice of anything that may be able to mend it. We feel that we will never love again. And we get so consumed by this that we forgo any second chances. We lose faith in love itself, lose faith in trust based relationships, feel like running away from everything, and hence lose faith in life. We feel we are stuck at one place, unable to move whereas the truth is that we don't want to move. We feel consumed by the feeling of love loss and pain.
But is it worth it? Is it worth spending all of that time mourning over someone who could not understand the depth of your feelings, who could not keep the trust you had in them, who was the one who walked away.I don't think so. I'm not saying that its easy. It never is. People say that they don't want to get hurt again, but there is one thing I have always believed in and that is that the greatest risk in life is to not have risked anything at all, never having lived at all. Love always gives us a second chance, sometimes early, sometimes late but its always up to us whether to accept it and make the best of it or let go of it and risk this blissful feeling.
So all those people who have fallen out of love, get up and say yes to life and love. They say you only love once, but I say you can love as many times as you want, but only if you want. No one can force you in that state of mind or make you fall in love. Love happens only if you want it to happen. So stop the mourning and start the flying.
Cheers!!
Love is probably the most amazing feeling to have existed. You cannot feel it, you have to experience it. It bonds two individuals in a phenomenal bond of intimacy and trust. There comes a time in every persons life when they experience this feeling. It can sweep you off your feet, give you butterflies in the stomach, make your life beautiful, truly give you a glimpse of heaven. But there is another side to it also. The part where love hurts you. More so often we see relationships which end badly, leaves one shattered, literally destroyed. They say love is as painful as it is beautiful, it destroys as much as it creates, it shatters as much as it uplifts. Falling in love is blissful, falling out of it is painful. And once you fall out of it, you feel that you can never love again.
But life and love are never that cruel. There always comes a time in every persons life when love gives them a second chance, a chance to love again, to feel again, to be happy again. Whether we take that chance or not is completely up to us and sadly most of us are so preoccupied crying over the one that ended to see the one that could begin. We are so sad and heart broken that we do not take notice of anything that may be able to mend it. We feel that we will never love again. And we get so consumed by this that we forgo any second chances. We lose faith in love itself, lose faith in trust based relationships, feel like running away from everything, and hence lose faith in life. We feel we are stuck at one place, unable to move whereas the truth is that we don't want to move. We feel consumed by the feeling of love loss and pain.
But is it worth it? Is it worth spending all of that time mourning over someone who could not understand the depth of your feelings, who could not keep the trust you had in them, who was the one who walked away.I don't think so. I'm not saying that its easy. It never is. People say that they don't want to get hurt again, but there is one thing I have always believed in and that is that the greatest risk in life is to not have risked anything at all, never having lived at all. Love always gives us a second chance, sometimes early, sometimes late but its always up to us whether to accept it and make the best of it or let go of it and risk this blissful feeling.
So all those people who have fallen out of love, get up and say yes to life and love. They say you only love once, but I say you can love as many times as you want, but only if you want. No one can force you in that state of mind or make you fall in love. Love happens only if you want it to happen. So stop the mourning and start the flying.
Cheers!!
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